Here are 7 signs that the person you are dating is very insecure, anxious, controlling or depressed. Especially if you see these signs in the first six months of your long distance relationship, they should make you consider whether. 2021. 4. 23. · 3. He won’t make long-term plans with you. When a guy has no genuine intentions, he won’t commit to anything far off in the future. He will be hesitant on giving a definitive ‘Yes’ about a road trip you’re planning together. He won’t be eager to attend your friend’s wedding invite two months away.